Posted Sun Jan 28, 2007 03:50 AM
Posted Sun Jan 28, 2007 02:44 PM
Posted Sun Jan 28, 2007 05:34 PM
your anus is very sensitive so you'll like it a lot. Just remember to relax and BREATHE. the breathing helps.
make sure you have him hold his penis in you once he inserts it so that you can take a little time to get used to the girth and so you can relax a little to make it enjoyable. don't forget lube.
Although, I do love the pleasure in the pain. I gasp for air when it first goes in. And I love that feeling so I make him pull out and ram it back in. Having him do that several times will make me cum. But that's just me.
Posted Mon Jan 29, 2007 01:04 AM
of course its going too hurt for the first time. but it gets better from here on out. just don't forget to breathe!!!!!!!!
Posted Fri Feb 02, 2007 02:23 AM
You have to loosen up a bit first. Try this...
1) Be in the mood to do it.
Unlike other forms of sex, with anal, you actually have to concentrate and be in the mood for it.
2) Use saliva/lube and play around with the hole. I enjoy having a tongue lapping around and thrusting inside.
3) Start feeling around with a finger and when ready, slip a fingertip in and then spread it out of bit gently pulling from side to side.
4) Once you get used to it, insert more of the same finger. As mentioned, breathe!! Also, bearing down helps with insertion and withdrawal.
5) Have your partner find your g-spot. You can also do it yourself. If you are on all fours and had a finger inserted it would be straight inside about 4 inches and then pressing forward towards the front of your body (almost like you want to itch the inside of your dick).
That should get you started. Try it out!
The main things are to be in the mood, take your time, and be gentle. If not you're asshole will definitely let you know the next day
Posted Sun Feb 04, 2007 12:30 AM
Posted Sun Feb 04, 2007 07:37 AM
Here is a short tutorial I typed up a while back. It's how *I* learned..
The key to this is to take your time and go slow. You learn how to control your butt and schincter muscles. You learn how to RELAX THEM and you get used to the feeling of it all.
Anal play for beginners
Disclaimer: I am NOT a doctor and I do NOT play one on TV. This is the way *I* learned how to discover anal play. As usual care needs to be practiced. GO VERY SLOWLY.
First start off with a TRIMMED index finger. You may even want to put on a latex glove first to help make it even smoother. Use KY or the drug store brand of KY and lube the finger well. Place it VERY GENTLY near the anus and lightly circle the hole with the finger. DON'T INSERT YET. Just circle it for a few minutes. After a few minutes without insert, just put the finger over the anus and gently press a bit without entering. Just apply a bit of pressure.
Do this over and over a few times and after a few minutes SLOWLY begin to insert JUST THE FINGER *TIP* in about a quarter of an inch then take it out. Do this a few times then go a LITTLE further in. Repeat this until you have you whole finger in. DO NOT FORCE IT, IF HE OR SHE OR YOU SAYS STOP, STOP!
Within a week or so of trying this the person should be fairly used to the finger and inserting and pumping it in and out should become easy. Also try moving the finger around while inserted, back & forth,etc. Orgasms ARE VERY VERY INTENSE when you leave your finger or butt plug or dildo in.
Soon you will want to try something slightly bigger than your finger. Try your middle finger or graduate to a SMALL butt plug. Same rules apply to the new toy as did with the finger. Start off using the finger as usual then after getting loose begin with the plug.
Plugs have flared bottoms to prevent them from going all the way in. If you graduate to dildos later get ones with a flared base or ones that have the balls at the bottom. This prevents them from slipping all the way in. You don't need a trip to the ER to retrieve it, that would SUCK!
After a while you will become very used to anal play and you won't need much time to prep for your session. You'll loosen up very quickly after you learn how to relax your anal muscles. It takes me less than 5 minutes to go from start to riding a 8 inch silicon dildo like a bucking bronco!
GITTYUP LITTLE DOGGIE!
The key to learning anal play/sex is to TAKE YOUR TIME.