I think i may be Bi
Posted Sun Jun 05, 2011 11:37 PM
Posted Mon Jun 06, 2011 04:35 PM
So my suggestion is to try it in steps.. Maybe give or get a a BJ from someone and see how itt goes..
Posted Mon Jun 06, 2011 05:09 PM
Posted Tue Jun 07, 2011 10:16 AM
During an especially intimate moment, maybe in bed after sex, simply ask her if she's ever fantasized about being with another woman. If she reacts negatively, you'll know she's not open and drop it. If she says well yes, then you'll know she's open to at least talking about it. Hopefully she'll ask if you have thought about bi, and you can admit that yes, well a time or two you have, and that everyone has at some point. Then see her reaction and go from there.
If she is very open, or maybe you break up or whatever, then my advice is to simply try it. You have to forget the "i dont want to act unless i know for sure that i am bi" thoughts. Just because you do it once with another guy doesn't mean you are bi, it merely means you've had a bisexual experience. There's a big difference between having a single (or a few) experiences and becoming (or realizing) you are bi.
If you do go through with it, find someone experienced in bi pleasure, then be open with them. Let them know up front you are nervous, it's your first time, etc. You'll find most folks very receptive, patient, and open to taking it slow and teaching you the pleasures of same sex intercourse.
And of course you don't have to go "all the way" the first time. It may be as gentle as a mutual masturbation session. Then on subsequent sessions proceeding to blow jobs or anal sex. I know some guys who declare themselves bi, but will only go as far as oral, won't do anal. To each his (or her) own.
Posted Tue Jun 07, 2011 05:48 PM
With the girlfriend, whatever you do, don't cheat, whether you choose to tell her where your feelings are at is your call, you know her and how she would react, better than anyone on here. Maybe she'll be understanding maybe she won't. Maybe if you're trying to find yourself you need some time away from her to figure out you.
Posted Wed Jun 08, 2011 05:28 AM
Posted Wed Jun 15, 2011 08:44 PM