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Shy and new to this
Posted Wed Jun 08, 2011 05:59 PM
Posted Thu Jun 09, 2011 01:45 AM
Posted Thu Jun 09, 2011 11:03 PM
Its all about "whims", Ginger. I myself am trying to work on "dirty talk". I can't really do it automatically in the moment, I have to over think it. I think a lot of guys have trained habits against it, afraid it will make them look or even feel lecherous and creepy (women have a lot more leeway with that). Can be hard to overcome especially with someone they're serious about. Maybe you could draw him out by asking him dirty questions. Or maybe you could toy with his inhibition by making play out of it, "making him" talk dirty to you (ie, "Say it now - you want to fuck me - say it", "say it again, louder, convince me how bad you want to fuck me", "Say it, how bad do you want to fuck me? How bad..." - almost like a love/lust confessional)
The shy thing can work in your/his advantage. Creates great sexual tension. Got a heavily religious upbringing myself, and found it only made drinking, smoking, "fornicating" (as they called it) all the more delightfully decadent. I still feel naughty when I smoke (on occasion). It's like they gave me an arsenal of soft limits to break. It's a blessing, it has given me a super-heightened response to it.
So what kind of dirty talk do you like? Men telling you what they want to do to you?? Can I hear a sample? May I practice with you? How about... I want your beau talking dirty you. Giving you what you want, verbally & physically. Buying you a dirty talk flash card game. Calling once a week with an anonymous, obscene phone call. Whispering in your ear at a five star restaurant how this is only an appetizer to the real feast on you later. Telling you he wants to get the desserts to go so he can eat it off of your stomach when you get home.
Like your beau, I am dirty talk bashful too, so that' the best I can do on the first time. But your welcomed to coach & critique me up.