Masterbating To Much?
Posted Fri Feb 09, 2007 05:27 AM
I don't know what to do to stop, I been doing it since I was 13 and it's really starting to take a toll on me, always tired, drag out of bed in the morning... feel shitty...
I can't seem to find a gf and I dont know what to do anymore...
Posted Fri Feb 09, 2007 06:45 AM
Stop worrying about it! We eat every day because it's enjoyable and we are satisfying an urge so why not masturbate?
If it's the tiredness that worries you, go to bed earlier, your parents won't hear anything.
Doing it lots, or not at all, isn't going to have any effect on you getting a girlfriend. Relax and enjoy your body
Posted Fri Feb 09, 2007 07:02 AM
Posted Fri Feb 09, 2007 08:09 AM
Posted Fri Feb 09, 2007 01:55 PM
Posted Fri Feb 09, 2007 02:03 PM
Anyways back to the topic at at hand (pun not intended)
I find I fall asleep easier after a quick jerk...
and if i don't I usually wake up with a hard-on and have to jerk it anyway in order to fall back to sleep anyways..
So don't ffel bad about it, just try to keep it from felling bad
Posted Fri Feb 09, 2007 02:32 PM
My same sediments.
Posted Fri Feb 09, 2007 04:14 PM
masturbate responsibly, please.
Posted Sat Feb 10, 2007 03:35 AM
I did stop looking a while ago, but even if there's none around here I don't know.
Posted Sat Feb 10, 2007 03:52 AM
The GF thing, well, that will happen on it's own time, don't sweat it. Believe me, GF's create bigger problems to solve than the one you are currently dealing with.
Posted Sat Feb 10, 2007 04:46 AM
Posted Sat Feb 10, 2007 06:07 AM
Try cutting down on masturbation...maybe only 2 or 3 times a week. During the times that you would normally masturbate, try reading a book, listening to your favorite music or similar. When you do decide to masturbate, take your time...go slow...make it a memorable experience...don't rush thru it. Do it...and forget it. Remember, it's good for your prostate and your general health...even if it makes you tired. But don't over do it. Get plenty of sleep and eat right.
To find a girl, just try being friends with one...even if you are NOT sexually attracted to her. Good friends can lead to other friends. And it's good to have friends. Especially girls. And pretty is not always better, but you might get lucky. Get phone numbers, call them up and listen to their problems. Be a friend who they can rely on.
Girls also like a guy who knows what he wants to do in life. It gives them a little security and they look up to you as being a little more mature than the other boys.
And sometimes they can help you make a decision. It gives you something to talk about when you can't seem to find words.
So for you....
Remember the direction that you might want to pursue in life; what you really would like to do. Because you will be working a long time...make it something you like to do. What are the steps to get there? How much can you achieve today towards that goal? Make each day a step forward. Focus on these things daily so you are prepared. Develop spare time hobbies so you are not always bored.