husband refuses sex
Posted Wed Jun 15, 2011 04:10 AM
im with a man who has gone off sex full stop
ive tried everything he just gets very angry when i mention it
ima very horny lady and he is just not interested he says the thought of touching as womans privates makes me vomit i cnat get a passionate kiss either as he says it makes him choke
he has neevr ever given me any sort of oral or foreplay says its disgusting
i was getting once a month on his terms no diff positions nothing his excuses are always te same too tired/ill/not in mood/mnot now/later etc
he s a bit of a hypocondriac always has a new complaint i think there juste xcuses to avoid sex but why?
its not me i assure you
i dont lo0ve him ni more i want ouit he a disgusting dirty slob who never washes/showers/sdhaves/brushes teeth
he wasnt like that in the begining
4 years too long
Posted Wed Jun 15, 2011 05:00 AM
This post has been edited by edopholetues: Wed Jun 15, 2011 05:02 AM
Posted Wed Jun 15, 2011 02:58 PM
Will he be willing to go to counseling? If not...
Are you willing to live with him as he is now?
What is best for you?
It takes two to have a healthy and satisfying relationship. If he's unwilling to seek help to address your concerns, then there isn't much you can do other than divorce him. Whether he deserves that chance is up to you.
Posted Wed Jun 15, 2011 03:43 PM
and before I get bashed, their is a big difference between wants and needs
Posted Wed Jun 15, 2011 09:15 PM
i dont lo0ve him ni more i want ouit
I'm sorry, what are you really expecting back with this thread, sympathy, or advice?
Sympathy: That sucks.
Advice: Grammar is your friend.
Beyond that, if you can't figure out what to do with your relationship, re-read your post (I know, its hard to do, but try anyways) and try to figure out what it is you want to do, and better yet, why you haven't done it yet. If you really wanted our advice on your relationship, you would have already included why you haven't done what you want.
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Posted Sat Jun 18, 2011 08:03 AM
Advice! Read the post!
Posted Sat Jun 18, 2011 08:48 AM
If after all your efforts you discover he only wants you out of this relationship, then I can understand the hurt you're feeling, and it will be painful to walk away. But in the hope that he still loves you, and that you do still love him, after all you cared enough to ask our advice, please give him this chance.
I hope it has a happy resolution for you both.
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Posted Sat Jun 18, 2011 11:37 AM
Give him an ultimatum: come clean, get help or be alone.
And think about getting laid in the meantime.
There's no excuse not to address this.
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Posted Wed Jun 22, 2011 03:27 PM
Go away on a vacation for 2 weeks, somewhere nice and sunny..
It could make a huge difference, also somewhere that he has to be active..
It's better than a divorce..
Hope there are no kids involved..