Is it normal to not have seen your girlfriend's breasts, belly or vagina in over a year?
Posted Fri Jun 17, 2011 01:04 PM
Posted Fri Jun 17, 2011 02:12 PM
I wouldn't be in a relationship without passion and lust.
Have talked to her about it?
Posted Fri Jun 17, 2011 02:54 PM
On the ever so slight chance you're remotely serious about this: she could be suffering from body image issues brought on by weight or something else. Does she at least let you touch her? What are the limits? Have you straight up asked her what's going on?
Posted Fri Jun 17, 2011 02:54 PM
Posted Fri Jun 17, 2011 03:36 PM
And what do you hope to accomplish with this thread? You know that in this day and age, what you are going experiencing is abnormal. Are you hoping that you can convince her that it's not normal and she should give up the goodies? If you aren't willing to continue in your relationship the way it is, you need to make a decision. If she's waiting for marriage, then you have two choices: marry her or leave her.
Posted Fri Jun 17, 2011 04:28 PM
Posted Fri Jun 17, 2011 05:14 PM
Posted Fri Jun 17, 2011 06:03 PM
I don't want to sound harsh but even if she does have body image issues or self image problems that is not a reason to stay. If after a year of being with you she hasn't mentioned it or you haven't noticed enough to discuss it then something is wrong with this relationship on a basic trust/interest level.
Posted Fri Jun 17, 2011 08:37 PM
There are a lot of good suggestions here - religious issues, body image issues, maybe something happened in your relationship - and nothing's going to change without communication between you and your girlfriend. Us guessing what could maybe be wrong isn't going to give you any answers.
I suggest having a serious conversation with her and letting her know what you're expecting from this relationship - especially when it comes to sex, which seems to be the main issue that you're having (at least from this thread). Explain to her what you want out of the relationship and how much you'd like to be having sex. If it's not excessive (i.e. six times a day), then she should be able to compromise with you. Wanting to have sex a few times a week isn't unreasonable.
And - as others have said - if she's not willing to meet you halfway and won't even discuss the issue or put any effort into the relationship, then maybe it's time to leave the relationship.
Posted Sat Jun 18, 2011 12:03 AM
Yeah right, you're the guy who also posted a thread in the relationship forum...
Zetsky, you're not in a healthy relationship... I really don't know what to suggest though. If I understand correctly you have a micropenis, and I don't want to sound harsh, but you're at a real disadvantage in terms of finding another sexual partner unless you have something else to compensate of course. However, whatever it is that you offer as a premium should not be your dignity.
Accepting that your girlfriend has sex with other men while you wait outside is not a normally acceptable arrangement for most couples. So, it's either you find something a little more equitable, or you take your chances and try to look for somebody else.
I mean, I've never been with anyone of your size, so I can't talk from experience, but what does she get from you if she doesn't even let you touch her skin, much less eat her out, which probably should be the first order every time you have sex? So, she's obviously looking for satisfaction elsewhere, maybe you should too...
Posted Sat Jun 18, 2011 04:21 PM
Posted Sat Jun 18, 2011 06:57 PM
As Olive alluded to, you know it's all wrong, and you know your self respect is on the line.
Are you looking for us to encourage you to leave or to stay?
Whatever you do, make sure that you are honouring yourself, no relationship is worth feeling like what you have to offer isn't enough.
Posted Sat Jun 18, 2011 08:19 PM
If this fellow, as mentioned a few posts ago, does have what's called micropenis, medical insurance WILL usually cover phallic enhancement surgery to add girth and length. Only IF it is diagnosed a real micropenis, as that is considered a legit medical issue. Surgery is not always good thing down there, to be sure. There are excercises and things you can do to add length and girth to your penis, too. It takes a very long time to get substancial gains, but it is generally effect for those who are patient and dedicated.
Second, this poster is not giving a straight story. With something like this, there's usually more forthcoming details. Like the post where he said 'We talked about it...and she lets my dry hump her'.....ok, no. What do you mean you talked about it? What'd she say her issue was? What's also not been ascertained is whether they've been going out for a year or whatever, and she NEVER went there with him, of if they had sex, did stuff, etc...but then it stopped a year ago. I don't see anywhere where the poster implied that they used have sex or even were sexual. He said 'forget about sex, I haven't even seen her belly in over a year'....Why don't you give us a little 4-1-1 on what happened over a year ago, and how what's going on now is different.
If you guys used to be intimate, then it stopped a year or so ago and you DO have micropenis...AND she wont even mess around with you and relegates you to dry humping...dude, you need to be out. Don't worry about being alone, not having a gf, or being scared if her being 'your last chance at love'....There's nothing waiting for you at the end of the road with this chick but disappointment and pain.
Listen to me : Tell this chick to take a hike...and say it assertively, but not angrily. Do NOT let her know you're upset, but you ARE done. If she doesn't want you, that's totally cool. Take your micropenis, and look up "PE" and look up jelqing and look up O-bends and look up penis enlargement that's covered by insurance for those with legit micropenis.
If she doesn't have the decency to let you go and would prefer to torment you because you may serve some other purpose to her but doesn't want to give anything back....pardon me, yall, for my french...but f*ck that chick. Give me her number, I'll tell her for ya.
Posted Thu Jun 23, 2011 02:37 AM
Posted Thu Jun 23, 2011 04:12 AM
she lets me feel her up on top of her clothes but she says she hates her boobs and doesnt like anything to be done out there so again im restricted to just the crotch and hips and stuff....
see the thing is that some of the restrictions were already there when we first started getting physically involved and i was fine with that....but now the sex has been removed from the equation....which also i guess i have to live with because she said she does not enjoy it at all...but dont you think i should atleast get to see her naked....not even touch her you know...
Posted Thu Jun 23, 2011 11:35 AM