getting her to swallow
Posted Sat Jun 18, 2011 02:22 AM
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Posted Sat Jun 18, 2011 07:02 AM
Well, next time, collect your cum somewhere and have it in front of your girlfriend to show her that it's not so bad.
Asking someone to do something you're not prepared to do yourself is a bit of a character flaw pal. Be fair.
Posted Sat Jun 18, 2011 08:47 AM
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Posted Mon Jun 20, 2011 01:43 PM
sigh.... while it would be polite to spare my fellow brethren and sistren of this forum my repeated retort and how it applies to repeated posts, it need posting nonetheless. Much like the bodybuilder in my office one day who was intent on arguing the premise that "you're" is not a word and that I can't just make shit up and use it. Your disdain of swallowing and inherent justification brought to final verdict by your sperm hating sewing circle do exactly the same thing. Thwart non sexual evolution. Sexual evolution cannot take place if personal intellect does not increase and social teaching and acceptance occur (Social Contract Theory). People who insist on remaining closed loop and insistent of non self or partnered discovery fail to move us forward. Your post makes you sound like a complete bore. One that has adhered to their mothers social contract so well there is no looking outside that protected box as long as you can stomach it for procreation. Your post classifies you and your friends as shallow individuals who cannot expand to love the whole of their partner and use social contract to define the barriers of your love for that partner. Please do everyone a favor and grow up to a point of maturation that allows you to converse.
"Fellatio rarely dominates women’s fantasies, but for one who has developed such a taste in reality, few sexual acts offer such unexpected rewards: to bring the man to intense sexual pleasure at her will. To feel the power of giving him total and complete acceptance. I have always resented the psychoanalytic notion that going down on a man is symbolically similar to breastfeeding; that it is a regressive form of sexuality. From my own experi- ence and research, the notion that a woman who likes to perform fellatio is “really” in search of maternal succor is naive. Perhaps a Freudian case might be made for the uncon- scious wish on some women’s part to drink a man’s semen in order to take into themselves the status the male is given in our society. But the women I’ve heard call semen “the power drink” or “a vitamin shot,” have a smile of satisfaction of a different sort. For the woman who has learned the excitement of taking the penis in her mouth, lovingly working it to full erection with lips, tongue, and saliva, and then bringing it off – feeling the pulse in her mouth as the semen spurts and she swallows it all – for her, this is neither mother’s milk nor a symbolic taking in of status. This is power of a different kind, the power of the pleasure bringer."
From Men in Love by Nancy Friday, Chapter 5 - Semen
This post has been edited by TheShade: Mon Jun 20, 2011 01:46 PM
Posted Mon Jun 20, 2011 02:57 PM
I hate to break it to you, but people are free to have preferences, and it in no way inhibits our ability to evolve. In fact, for women to be able to stand up and say, "I don't like that and I'm not going to do it" and have that be that shows that we have evolved already. We will continue to evolve as long as we have men who understand that women may exert their free will in anyway that does not violate the free will of others.
Posted Tue Jun 21, 2011 05:38 AM
Perhaps you and her could reach a compromise for now. You pull out and deposit most of it elsewhere besides in her mouth, and then ask her to suck the last remaining drops out of it.
Posted Tue Jun 21, 2011 07:58 AM
Big decision, do I Yuck out or what? I decided to be totally mature about it. I knew what it tasted like, but never took a load of cum in my mouth like that. I looked at her, rolled it around in my mouth, examined the taste and texture, then swallowed it. I smiled at her and leaned over to give her a kiss. She backed away and told me to open my mouth to show her. Then she kissed me and asked me if I liked it? I had to lie, or thought I had to lie and told her that I liked it and it wasn't as bad as she makes out.
Mistake. She told me that since I like it, I could have it all of the time. Ever since then, decades ago,she has let me cum in her mouth, as long as she could give it right back to me. Agreed. If she didn't want it in her mouth at all, she would let me cum anywhere on her body, as long as I licked it up, anywhere. I never looked back. I never got her to swallow, but I didn't get shut down altogether. Compromise is ok
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