Would you try it just once, for them?
Posted Wed Jun 22, 2011 09:49 AM
Posted Wed Jun 22, 2011 09:58 AM
Posted Wed Jun 22, 2011 10:13 AM
It does depend on what the thing is to a point, but I'm pretty open-minded and willing to experiment with him and trust him. If he wanted to try something (within reason), I think I'd do it. I wouldn't be interested in anything at all - ever - involving blood, feces, vomit, etc., because that's just disgusting and not sexually appealing. And I highly doubt I'd be alright with bringing in any other people for something like a threesome, partner swapping, swinging, group sex, etc. But if it was just between the two of us, then I'd be willing to try a lot of things if he wanted to try them with me. We've never watched porn together, masturbated for each other, had sex outside, I've never used a toy on him, we've never had sex in a public or semi-public place, we've never been to a nudist resort or a nude beach, we've never used food or candle wax, etc. The list goes on. And I'd be willing to do any and all of those things - and I'm sure there are plenty more things that I can't think of right now. We haven't tried a whole lot, I guess. We've had anal sex, and we've used toys on me during sex, I've made him a video of myself masturbating, and we've sexted and had phone sex. I think I probably would have done all of those things eventually - or at least I hope I would have. I've enjoyed all of those things. I think that having other options besides vaginal sex and oral sex has enhanced our sex life. There's really nothing that we've tried that I've hated or wouldn't do again. And we're still young - we've been together for almost five years and aren't even married yet - so we have our whole life together to try new things and experiment sexually. I'd like to do the things I listed above and check off my sexual bucket list and learn how to squirt and all kinds of fun stuff yet.
Posted Wed Jun 22, 2011 10:39 AM
Posted Wed Jun 22, 2011 10:53 AM
Recently, I was dating someone for a while that, as we were discussing where our boundaries were, she brought up fingering my ass, which I had never had done to me, but she loved getting anal sex and I believe you shouldn't do something that you aren't willing to get done to you. So as we were laying in bed one afternoon, while she was going down on me, she lubed up her finger and slowly slid that finger around my ass and finally into me. At first it felt very weird, but after a couple of minutes to adjust to the feeling, it was one of the hottest experiences I've ever had. It might have been the first time I've ever been multi orgasmic and she just kept smiling as I kept cumming and she would just occasionally lick the head of my cock ...
It was a fantastic experience and greatly enhanced my sex life. While it's similar to giving anal sex, it's something I like, but not something I want to do every time, but definitely something I'll do again with the right woman.
How about you Honeypie? What have you tried for your man?
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Posted Thu Jun 23, 2011 01:17 AM
I've done plenty of other things like mild bondage (restraints, blindfold), photography/videography, received oral sex to completion, role playing, same room sex, webcam sex and sex in various places (both private and public) with previous partners. These are things I've tried introducing in my marriage over the past 6 or 7 years with no success.
I have to kind of laugh too. A few weeks ago, a couple of her closest female friends were staying the night with us and one of them raised the topic of sex on a chair. The other friend said "oh thats so kindergarten" and the two of them started laughing. I looked at my wife and her jaw was hanging open. Just the day before I had suggested we have sex on a chair in the kitchen but she said no because "that's too kinky".
If the roles were reversed where she had done everything I had done, I'm quite sure I'd try anything she'd want to do at least once provided there was little to no pain or other people involved.
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