Reservations about having "casual sex" ~ did you ever go back and forth in your mind as to whether or not you should do it?
Posted Sun Jun 26, 2011 05:59 AM
Like you wanted sex however something was holding you back?
Posted Sun Jun 26, 2011 06:10 AM
I've tried it a few times, it just leaves me feeling empty and like I've let myself down the next day. I never engage in it now, no matter how horny I'm feeling at the time. Sex in a relationship with someone you have a strong emotional bond is a much nicer experience than a casual sexual encounter.... Just my opinion of what my own personal experience is.
Posted Sun Jun 26, 2011 08:01 AM
There are many guys that are real nice out there trying to get a hookup... Maybe they're not too good with the confidence required in a bar setting. I don't go to bars, so I don't meet these overly confident men who know how to talk, so they can't do a thing for me... Besides, I don't need to be talked to, I need to be listened to, and I find quiet men are better are these than the chatty bunch.
I'm a mature woman anyway, so I don't need to be seduced... It takes me a few seconds to know if I feel attracted to a man, so I save him a great deal of time in that regard. For the ones who fail though, there's absolutely nothing they can do to make me move the tip of one of my fingers. It's better they don't lose their time anymore.
Good luck in whatever you do.
This post has been edited by Olive: Sun Jun 26, 2011 08:04 AM
Posted Sun Jun 26, 2011 08:50 AM
I've been out of a relationship for a while and have had sex with 4 different women in the past 2 months. I want more, but with the right woman.
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