What do you make of this?
Posted Thu Feb 15, 2007 08:57 AM
I’m not interested in a relationship, but just looking for a little “fun” on the side. At the end of a long day, sometimes a little “stress-relief” makes everything a little easier.
At first it sounds like this girl is looking for a fuck buddy. So I'm thinking, well OK maybe.
I replied and told her, I was looking for a relationship but wouldn't mind having a friendship with someone if that's what they wanted. That I wasn't a love 'em and leave 'em type. You know at least take them out to dinner.
So I get a reply back this morning and she says the following:
I'm not looking for any type of relationships. In fact my relationships are normally lesbian relationships. Occassionally though, for various reasons, I opt to search a little fun from males. Normally when I do this, since it is a non-strings attatched situation, it is also with the hopes that they will be interested in donating to my educational trust fund. I know that all seems a little blunt and even a little strange, but I'm always honest about the thought process I have when it comes to situations like this.
Sounds to me like she's a prostitute. She's not what I would envision a prostitute to be. I mean she is not ugly or anything. Based on her profile she is "self employeed" and going to school. She is 29 and looks like it. I don't know if "self employeed" means prostitute or she has a real job.
I checked the "women looking for women" section and she is listed in that section.
Maybe she is the type that likes some action from men occasionaly but likes to take advantage of the situation if she is financially in a bind.
Since she is somewhat appealing to me and wants no string attached sex except for donations as she calls it, I'm curious wheather or not I should take her up on her offer.
I just don't know what to make of this.
Posted Thu Feb 15, 2007 09:15 AM
Wait, I'm unemployed and in school. lol oops I have loans though, I'm not a prostitite, I also don't have sex for money. Whatever her situation is, if she includes money in your sexual transaction, that is prostitution. It doesn't have to be on a street corner or with a dirty or ugly woman. It is what it is.
Posted Thu Feb 15, 2007 09:18 AM
I'm unemployed and in school. Never crossed my mind to do that!! lol
Though someone offered to pay $100 for my worn panties. I thought about starting a business.
Posted Thu Feb 15, 2007 10:46 AM
Posted Thu Feb 15, 2007 11:05 AM
Yeah that's what I'm thinking.
I'd never been propositioned like this so I was a bit stunned. Even though it sounds like she is a prostitute to me even if she is not out on some street corner.
I mean if she wanted me to take her out to dinner or whatever, that would be fine. But like you said, if she's just in it for the money, that's not much fun to me. I want someone who actually wants me, not my money. Just like most girls wants a guy who want them as a person and not just for their body.
I also don't like the idea of knowing she may have contacted other guys besides me.
In her profile she says she is self employeed but is a full time college student. That makes me wonder what type of "job" she actually has. I suppose a prostitute could be considered self employeed if they don't have to give their money to a pimp.
If I had met her over a year ago I probably would have jumped at the chance. Simply because I was a virgin, looking to loose it and I really don't know where find one of these women. I don't really live in a small town but street walkers are not common where I live. I'm sure if I drove into a bad neighborhood I'd find one on the street corner but I try to avoid those areas.
Usually they are in whorehouses out in the country and you have to find out where they are by word of mouth.
Actually strip clubs are the best place to find these women who do this sort of thing on the side where I come from. From what I've been told.
But even then I didn't like the having sex with someone for money. And since sex is dangerous enough these days in a relationship that makes me even more scared knowing she's may have been with tons of guys.
Back in the 1980s/early 90s, there was a mobile home park in a neighboring county and it was common knowledge it was full of these whorehouses. They got away with it for so long because the county Sheriff was corrupt. He was either taking bribes or didn't care what went on in his district. He had some of his deputies do some work on his house while they were on the clock instead of out patrolling. So he finally got busted for that and the whorehouses dissapeared once the new sheriff took control. Amazes me how stuff like this goes on for years like this.
Posted Thu Feb 15, 2007 01:43 PM
Hey... you can't be too careful!
Posted Thu Feb 15, 2007 05:21 PM
Hey... you can't be too careful!
That's a good point! That's why I always ask to meet people at resturants rather than picking them up at their house.