Are you game?
Posted Wed Jun 29, 2011 08:14 PM
Posted Wed Jun 29, 2011 08:21 PM
I dont understand her, She always seems to enjoy sex when we have it, but that is rare. Its got me fucked???
Posted Wed Jun 29, 2011 08:29 PM
Posted Wed Jun 29, 2011 09:37 PM
I'm game for most things. I say "most" because there are definitely some things I'd never want to try - i.e. scat play (*shudders*). But if there is something my guy wants to try, I'll likely be game to try it at least once, and if one or both of us doesn't/don't like it, then we don't have to do it again. I think there should be room for experimentation in relationships. We're monogamous, communicate relatively well, have a solid foundation of friendship, and trust and love each other, so why shouldn't we have fun doing whatever we want in our own bedroom? I don't know that my fiance would be game for anything. He doesn't talk about his sexual fantasies, so many things we'd have to discuss if and when they come up to see if we'd both be interested. I can really only speak for myself on this topic. I would hope that Mr._C. would be open-minded and willing to experiment with me. Someday I'd like to try anal play on him. I'd like to try to give him a prostate massage to see if he'd enjoy it and have a more intense orgasm because of that kind of stimulation. But I don't know if he'd be game for that if I brought it up. I do wish that he was better able to express his sexuality, but he is growing all the time. He's more vocal in bed than when we met, and he picked out some restraints for us to use together, which was, I think, a big step for him. He's slowly opening up to me more over time, and he'll get there. I think I just have to give him the time to feel comfortable talking about sexual topics with me more. The best part is that we have our whole lives to try new things sexually. I know I'm really looking forward to all of the fun we're going to have.
Posted Wed Jun 29, 2011 09:42 PM
Anything? Have you come across anything that you refuse to do again?
I split things into three lists: Definite go. Maybe so. Oh HELL no!
Posted Wed Jun 29, 2011 11:12 PM
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Posted Thu Jun 30, 2011 01:32 AM
Posted Thu Jun 30, 2011 11:26 AM
Posted Thu Jun 30, 2011 11:46 AM
Hi, like you I have only resently ventured into different kinds of sexual activity. My partner is very limited in the choices she offer for sex. So now I am seeking sex partners that do very different things in sex. I want to try being a sex slave to a domination woman. I don't know if it is ok with this forum to describe intimate details of just exactly what I want her to be like. But if you want to email me I will give you the detailed rendering of my desire with a dominant woman. I love kinky,dirty,nasty,freaky,some BDSM, and being dominated in a group setting. I would love to have these kinds of sex with you when you are comfortable being with my. I'd like to meet you at a coffee shop of your choosing and on your time schedule. Please let me know if you are interested in meeting me, bring your boyfriend along too.
Posted Thu Jun 30, 2011 12:40 PM
Posted Thu Jun 30, 2011 02:12 PM
You see, something that I consider extremely important, more so than just trying anything is the human aspect... Even if it's a stranger that you're never going to see again, you can still share something intimate and of human value... You don't have to be in love. If not, tell me... How many times you have talked to a stranger and felt you've had a connection even if you exchanged just a few words... Well, that's the type of connection I need. Sex is important for me, but not to the extent of being a priority in my life... I can go without it. I have control over my urges, they don't rule me.
I'm always a little puzzled when I read posts of people that want to fuck without the inconvenience of emotions. I wonder if they're looking for psychopaths or something. No one is void of emotions, at least if they're human. So, as long as that human connection exists, I'm willing to try things... And I have, and I am... But I will only do it with people that understand that my limits are to be respected and not to be challenged. All those opportunists who feel a horny woman is just a number of holes waiting to be used and abused can definitely start looking elsewhere.
Posted Fri Jul 01, 2011 07:36 AM
I agree with what someone said before though, the person/people involved make a little bit of difference. There are some people I just can't picture certain things with, because it's just not right for the dynamics of the situation.
Posted Fri Jul 01, 2011 08:47 AM
Agreed 100%....even if my posts sometimes come off as the "fucking without emotion" side of things. When my wife and I take other partners, we ALWAYS do so with people we know, trust, respect and feel safe with. These are people that we love to be around, love to spend time with in and out of bed and love to call our friends. The only thing we don't have with them is a sex session based on the traditional sense of "love" such as what my wife and I share. Do we care about these men and women? Absolutely! But we don't love them and want to spend the rest of our lives together. We don't love them like a bf/gf.
Edit: To get back on topic here however, there is very little that I'm not willing to try aside from scat/bestiality/incest/body modification or scarification or extreme pain.
This post has been edited by one4xtcnd: Fri Jul 01, 2011 08:49 AM
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