female climax HELP!!
Posted Sat Jul 02, 2011 06:34 PM
Posted Sat Jul 02, 2011 06:37 PM
Posted Sat Jul 02, 2011 06:39 PM
we have tried that tho thats the thing!! nothing seems to be working for me and i dont no why!! thanks for a gd reply by the way.
Posted Sun Jul 03, 2011 03:17 AM
Posted Sun Jul 03, 2011 08:28 AM
Reaching orgasm = cumming. If you say that you have no problem reaching orgasm, then I'm not sure what the issue is here.
It does seem like you're talking about squirting as "cumming" - i.e. you're thinking that some kind of liquid should come out when you reach orgasm in the same way that men ejaculate. Some women squirt, and this is called female ejaculation.
However, for most women, it seems, squirting takes a lot more than just reaching orgasm. I've never been able to squirt. I've had hundreds of orgasms in my life, and that's not to say that orgasms aren't perfectly enjoyable without squirting. But it's just something that I'd really like to figure out that I just haven't wrapped my head around yet. I may figure it out someday - or maybe I won't. But it's just not something that I naturally do.
And there are some women who squirt without much effort at all and from all sorts of stimulation.
Don't be too worried about squirting. I've been told that the more you try to figure it out, the more frustrated you're going to be, which will make it even more difficult. Not only that, but it seems like so many more women are beginning to think that they should just be squirters because they see these porn stars squirting like a hose across the room in a video and believe that their orgasms should be the same way. Some women who squirt say that it's more like a dribble making a puddle on the bed than a hose-like squirt that shoots six feet. It's going to be a different experience from one woman to another.
But be assured that you are cumming if you're reaching orgasm.
Posted Sun Jul 03, 2011 09:51 AM
I am misstaken.
here r some suggestions. find out if u r bored with ur b/f or not. If bored then express it straightly to ur b/f.
Then if u like him then find out whats wrong with u at the present time ? like job, lonliness, or any other personal
which occupies ur mind over & above of all. If at all if u could find any such thing then try to solve it out and ur
mind will be refreshed.
can enjoy any thing freshly, B8 with a dull & pre loaded mind u are just trapped ur self.
Lastly find out actually what turns u on. be true to urself. May be xplicit PIcs, xx videos or xx stories & over and
above be highly imaginative. Invite all ur senses to be very attentive when u r with your bed partner. Think your
partner is there to please u in every aspects
Hope this will turn u on & u will receive orgasms as many times as u wish to get.
Tell me if I could be of any other help to u, I follow this things & enjoys orgasms as per my choice.
While in bed I am just straight & simple be honest to my self
Posted Fri Jul 08, 2011 06:11 PM
Don't be alarmed. Are you concerned that when you orgasm you don't have any cum drip out? Or are you talking about not squirting like Miss_C referred to? Let me know about the 1st question, however I can give you input about squirting.
About 20 years ago I rented a tape about squirting orgasms. It made me very excited to see my lady squirt. I had already mastered having romance for hours. I started searching for info to be sure that it wasn't something that only a few ladies do.
This is what I found out. Any lady can have a squirt orgasm. For some ladies it is natural for them to squirt without any effort. The ones that don't, just need to understand how to squirt and have a dedicated unselfish mate. (Man or Lady) Does you mate understand how to excite your G-spot? You must believe you can. You must not give up.
After my divorce, I had a opportunity to help my dates AND several lady friends who doubted they could squirt. All 25 ended up squirting most on the first try and a few other took 3-4 tries. Yes they has multiple squirt orgasms. I was lucky to date a lady during that time I was searching for the answers, who soaked me the first time we had sex.(she was a natural and apologized when she did. She then did it 5 more times. WOW. I also experienced one date where she drowned me when I touch her clit through her panties. Another WOW. I was hooked. I hope you believe me now.
Now here we go. When you were a little girl and you felt the urge to pee, you were taught to hold and go the potty. Most women have the same urge right before their orgasm and then run to the bathroom top pee. They are still doing what they were taught as a child. When your getting ready to have an orgasm just spread your legs up in the air, scream, and push like you gonna have the BIGGEST PEE EVER. It common also for your legs to shake and after the orgasm for you to lay on the bed, floor, or counter (ha ha) with no energy. You will lay there several minutes and then you will be ready to do it again. My best time, she had 15 orgasms within the hour of sex. If it doesn't happen the first time.....don't give up. I had a friend that strongly thought she couldn't and didn't listen to me. However she only filled a shot glass full the 1st time and on the 3rd try she shot off the bed and on the floor.
******************I tried to make it easy for you....I attached a squirt clip!!!!!! Oh yes it okay to try it alone...
Set the mood.
-Think about it all day
-dress sexy IN YOU OWN EYES
-put on your favorite erotic perfume.
-foreplay with mate for an hour, not touching or penetration.
-During this time, rent & watch a movie about squirting or you can download "squirting movie" clips from frostwire.
I hope your not bored with me by now. Remember this worked for 25 out 25 ladies from 28 years old to 57 years old.
Good Luck. Let me know how it goes. It would be much easier if I could show you, Ha ha ha.................. Take
-Just think when you feel like you gonna pee...................spread, scream. push sweetie.
Posted Sat Jul 09, 2011 05:45 AM
If you mean you cannot orgasm at all - there are prescription drugs (like anti-depressants and such) that can make you un-orgasmic and probably you should change them.
If you mean you do orgasm but the orgasm feels rather weak - again it is most probably medication or the contraceptives that block your hormones and make it less intense.
Are you able to get a good orgasm while masturbating?
Posted Sat Jul 09, 2011 12:22 PM
Posted Tue Aug 23, 2011 10:02 AM