Do you Masturbate because you Want to or because you Need to?
Posted Wed Jul 13, 2011 07:07 PM
I masturbate when i get the urge and not because i need to, how ever if i leave it for a while if i am stressed or something i often find my self in need of that release, and in the past if i ignore this i have erotic dreams, which has once ended in me orgasming in my sleep! i also use masturbation to kill time when i am bored!
would be nice to get some views on how people use and want masturbation!
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Posted Thu Jul 14, 2011 01:04 AM
if i had to go without, im sho i could...i would be pissy as hell tho.
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Posted Thu Jul 14, 2011 04:52 PM
I DO IT WHEN I FEEL LIKE IT
Posted Thu Jul 14, 2011 09:51 PM
I'd gladly go without it, but at some point I just can't. I wish I didn't think about sex too often... It's distracting, sometimes annoying, and it definitely scatters my concentration. I have too many things to do, a lot of them I have to do, but many others I do because they bring something to my life. Masturbation does nothing of the sort... It satiates me, just the same way as a Big Mac would satiate my hunger. Fortunately, being someone who likes a good table, I can make the parallel with a good lay. I just don't eat because I'm hungry, I'd rather wait and eat something that will give me satisfaction... Same with sex, I'd rather wait, and by the same token, By the same token, masturbation serves me just as a temporary release so I don't go insane during celibate periods.
Posted Fri Jul 15, 2011 10:26 AM
I do think it's a little of both - a want and a need. I just want to most of the time. I'm bored and have wandering hands, LOL, or my guy isn't around when I feel horny or I'm laying in bed and night and use it to help me sleep... There are a lot of reasons why I want to masturbate, and I typically get off once a day or once every other day - at least a few times a week. Lately, it's been closer to every day. And while I definitely wouldn't die if I didn't masturbate, I do think it is needed sometimes. I agree that it's a psychological "release" in addition to a physical one. It can improve my mood or get rid of a mild headache. Like Wiglaf, I start to get pretty grumpy after going without sex or an orgasm for a while, so masturbation is a way for me to deal with dry spells when Mr._C. and I aren't having as much sex as I'd like. I haven't felt like masturbation was a need very often, but there have been times when I've been so horny and distracted because of it that I needed to masturbate just to get on with my day. It's both a want and a need, but it's much more of a want than it is a need for me. I do sometimes think, "My guy will be home later, so I won't have a chance after that," or, "I haven't masturbated all day, and I'm not too tired to do it now before I fall asleep."
^I thought this was really nice. You and your SO obviously have a great relationship and are able to accommodate each other - even when you're not physically together.
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