I'm leaving SF
Posted Sun Feb 25, 2007 09:48 AM
I don't want to think that men are pigs and turn into a bitter manhater but I think the longer I stay at SF, the more I will think this. And it's not solely because men are pigs. I understand that SF is a SEX forum, lol, and so, well, men will talk about sex. But it's some of the more superficial things that I don't like and I just don't think I fit in exactly here.
After what happened to me in my last relationship, I need to start trusting guys more, not less, and I don't think staying here will help that. I think I need to ignore the fact that most guys cheat, lie, or just care about looks and body parts. I'm not sure if any of this is making sense. I don't mean to offend anyone. It's not anyone specifically here. It's just the nature of the forum that I don't think is particularly healthy for me. I just can't stand seeing another thread about a married guy looking to cheat outside his relationship. It strikes a really bad nerve. I can't fight the whole world. I can't enlighten everyone. I need to realize that.
I do promise that I will be back when I have safely assimilated into a healthy relationship.
Posted Sun Feb 25, 2007 09:50 AM
I was also cheated on in my last relationship and i hate seeing and hearing about people even considering it.
I hope everything work's out well for you, take care..
Posted Sun Feb 25, 2007 09:53 AM
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Posted Sun Feb 25, 2007 09:56 AM
I hope you find what you are looking for
Take Care xx
Posted Sun Feb 25, 2007 09:59 AM
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Posted Sun Feb 25, 2007 12:34 PM
PK, you really meant a lot to me here at SF. You are the shoutbox queen and wield amazing powers over it.
Posted Sun Feb 25, 2007 12:36 PM
Scum Of The Earth said:
Oh, you say goodbye like I'll never be back!! You better still be here when I do return some day. Thank you for your advice and kind compliments. They really mean a lot to me, my Muslim friend.
Posted Sun Feb 25, 2007 12:45 PM
Posted Sun Feb 25, 2007 12:55 PM
Laurel Q said:
Oh i wasnt talking about you leaving completely i was just saying maybe you shouldnt leave like that instead come n go... check things out when you got time keep us updated and dont make us feel like youve been gone... i personally dont like knowing people are leaving:p
Posted Sun Feb 25, 2007 01:08 PM
Posted Sun Feb 25, 2007 01:14 PM
But really--we are here anytime for anything you need to talk about. Take care.